What Do Women Find Attractive
I got an important question from one of my students I am coaching, and he said that he was worried about the size of his nose. He thought it was too big and that it was ugly and that it made him ugly. It gave him low self esteem with women and he just couldn’t get over it.
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This is actually a common problem among men: this feeling that were are not good looking enough, and it just kills our game.
But it is only because we don’t understand the situation. The solution is simple but the situation is complex. My reply will make it really easy to understand and then to remedy.
It is my belief that this situation is the most damaging to men who want women in their lives but haven’t had success for this very reason.
Please take 5 minutes and read my reply.
Here is my reply:
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Hello W,
Your question of anxiety is universal among all the men I have coached for over the past 5 years: whether it’s the size of their nose, shortness, tallness, skin color, ethnicity, economic status, some physical flaw due to genetics: whatever.
It’s insidious and men let it destroy any chances they have with women that they deserve. It’s a sensitive issue for sure, but it doesn’t have to be!
Let me address this heavy issue once and for all and to dissipate it FOREVER.
Remember, this is one of the most important factors on achieving innergame, and here it is–if you think you have a shortcoming, you’re right–if you don’t think you have a shortcoming you’re right.
Onwards.
First, think about Shrek, Cyrano, Lord Byron, and Casanova.
Shrek was an ogre, Lord Byron had a club foot, and Casanova was quite ugly.
Shrek got the girl, Lord Byron was a master with women, and Casanova was a consummate rake.
To give you a contemporary example:
I invite you to do a google search on a congressmen, Dennis Kucinich. He’s the man. He’s uglier than sin, 64 years old, a senior citizen, and short, but he has a 33 year old English model that works with the English Parliament and has a tongue ring! She’s a whole head taller than him! It’s his personality she’s attracted to!
So, Kucinich and those guys above had/has a very attractive personality. You need to focus on developing your personality or what guys call innergame.
Your personality is the key point that women will look at. Now, yes, they will look at your hygiene, and fashion to be sure. Fashion and hygiene is something you can control, though and are huge when it comes to attracting women, but your personality is the most essential.
Look, women are so forgiving about men’s looks. The problem is that we think that women judge us men the same way we judge women, which is based on this one thing: Looks, looks, looks. But, this is wrong wrong wrong!
Don’t beat yourself up here. Women are attracted to good looking men, but if they don’t have the personality, they will sleep with them for physical pleasure but they will never hang around or have a relationship with them. You can attract women not based on what you look like but with your personality. Same results whether you are good looking or not, but with a great personality.
Moreover, check this out:
Kurgan’s Law Of Attraction:
A woman’s social value comes from the outside in, but for men, it comes from the inside out!
Women love a guys personality more than looks.
Your fear of the size of your nose scars your attractiveness to women because it makes you insecure.
So, ironically, it’s your perception of your nose, not the physicality of your nose, that will make you unattractive to women.
So, it’s not the size of your nose that woman will not like, but your negative thoughts about your nose and of your negative perception of yourself as a whole! (See a confident man wouldn’t care, and women are attracted to a confident man regardless of his looks.)
So, the solution is to work on your personality: your skill set, lifestyle, confidence, humor, passion for things in YOUR life! Make your life more important than the woman’s. That’s the key.
Accept yourself. Love yourself. There’s nothing wrong with you. You can’t control what nature gave you, so embrace it and be the a great person that you really are without making any apologies for the way you are physically.
With this release be what women always ask of us men: “be who you really are.”